“Be your best friend”

A guy at one of my shows told me, " Do not say anything to yourself that you wouldn't say to your best friend." Be your best friend!

I love attending shows and seeing all you beautiful ladies try on my designs. However, it makes me sad and frustrated to see that 95% of you criticize your bodies. We must stop this; it doesn't benefit you or anyone around you.

We are exceptional at telling our friends how great their bum looks, how clear their skin is or how pretty their hair looks, but we never say the same to ourselves. Why? 

I want to change the narrative we tell ourselves. I aim to normalize and emphasize that we all deserve to feel good about ourselves; no one is perfect. We must do what is right for our bodies and health and start to love all our bodies, including the lumpy, flat, crooked, and wonky parts.

The relationships I build with my customers at shows are incredible. I have learned so much, connected with real people, and realized how important my work is. I want to raise awareness about the fact that we all experience body insecurities; let's have a conversation about it! 

We often give negative thoughts too much power, allowing them to control and define us. It's important to remember that nobody is perfect! In today’s society, there is an unhealthy fixation on the lives and appearances of others, leading to an urge to compare ourselves to strangers. We all need to recognize that everyone struggles with body image and insecurities.

Instead of dwelling on the negative, let’s focus on the positive aspects of ourselves. Rather than concentrating on our flaws, we should remember that others often see beauty in us that we don’t recognize ourselves. For example, the woman you admire for her beautiful legs might think your eyes are stunning!

Last year, I had the privilege of collaborating with a talented local artist and a local Suicide Task Force to raise funds and awareness about the importance of self-compassion. We organized a fun photoshoot for women in the community, creating a safe space for connection and conversation. 

It was a wonderful opportunity to discuss the reality that it's okay not to be OK and that we all experience ups and downs. I want us to feel comfortable talking openly about problems, sex, menopause, fears, loves, and insecurities. I am excited to plan similar initiatives in the future.

Life can be challenging, but by focusing on what brings us joy, making healthy choices, and embracing what we have, we can all achieve the ultimate look: a genuine and confident smile. 

You can also wear fun, flattering clothing that fits your shape, haha. 

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