Ladies, you are making me mad!
Posted by EMMA STEVENS
Please stop being so negative about yourself.
I love going to shows and seeing all you beautiful ladies try on my designs, but it makes me sad and mad how 95% of you criticise your bodies. We have to stop this; it doesn't benefit you or anyone around you.
I have learned so much about women in the past two years and sadly realised that most are unhappy with their bodies. We are exceptional at bigging up our friends, telling them how great their bum looks, how clear their skin is or how pretty their hair looks, but we never say the same to ourselves. Why?
I had wonderful discussions with many of you at my booth this year regarding this subject and my strong desire to transform our self-image when we look in the mirror.
In today's society, there seems to be an unhealthy fixation on others' lives, appearances and the constant urge to compare oneself to strangers. Everyone needs to acknowledge that we all struggle with body image and insecurities. Instead of dwelling on the negative, let's shift our focus to the positive aspects of ourselves.
We commonly give too much power to negative thoughts, letting them control and define us. However, it's essential to keep in mind that nobody is perfect, and it's something we need to work on continually.
Instead of focusing on our flaws, we should remember that others may see the beauty in us that we don't see ourselves. For instance, that lady you admire over there for her great legs might be thinking how beautiful your eyes are!
Life can be challenging, but by making healthy choices and embracing what we have, we can all attain the ultimate look - a genuine and confident smile.
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Sam On
Amen! Well said Emma! 🙌